In the daily bustle, we often forget how importantRemind your loved ones that they are dear to us. When did you say the words of love to the dear person for the last time - sincere and not requiring any answers?
Everyone wants to feel loved and needed, andadults and children. But for children this feeling is not just desirable, it is necessary. That the development of the child was harmonious, that a happy, self-assured person should grow out of it, one condition must be fulfilled. this - unconditional love.
A child needs love, like a plant - inConstant irrigation. Everything starts from childhood, and this period can be the beginning of the birth of psychological problems. No one wants to have an adult daughter or son in the future who is not independent, unhappy, always looking for a place in life and not being able to be open, loving people.
So why do parents forget to show their love to children? Because education - this is not a constant deterrence and a flurry of moral teachings.
When raising a child, it is important to show by your own example what and how to do. At the same time - to love a child, and not just to love, but not to forget this love show. It's not at all difficult - Show one's feelings. You can do this in different ways.
Say love sincerely
- I love you.
- I love you, even when you indulge.
- I love you, even when you're angry.
- I love you, even when I'm angry with you.
- I love you, even when you are far away from me. My love is always with you.
- thank you.
- I really like to play with you.
- I always remember you.
- You are my dearest person.
Remind me how love is manifested
- Tell the story of the birth of the baby.
- Look with the child of his children's photos and tell him stories about his infancy.
- Tell me why the child got this name.
- Tell us about yourself in childhood - it's so happy children and helps them feel more confident.
- Tell us about what is not easy and sad for you - share your child with the innermost, and he will share with you his experiences.
- Come up with a secret code: for example, if you gently squeeze the child's hand three times, it will be the phrase "I love you" in your language.
- Make a child a bracelet and say that every time he sees it, he must remember how much you love him and how important he is to you.
Do not forget to listen
- Listen to what the child is telling you in the car.
- Listen to his favorite toys, cartoons and books.
- Listen to questions and answer them.
- Listen carefully and patiently, in any situation.
- Listen and do not forget to hear: think, what feelings and experiences are hidden behind ordinary children's words.
- Why did it happen, do you think?
- But what happens if it happens?
- How to find out what interests us?
- What are you thinking about?
- What did you most enjoy today?
Show an example
- Try not to ban, but teach how to do it right.
- Show how to cook simple and not very dishes.
- How to fold clothes.
- How to take care of yourself.
- Show your love for your spouse - this is very important, this is the guarantee of a happy family life for your child.
Spend time unforgettably
- Look at the construction site with the child.
- Look at the birds in the park, listen to their singing.
- Walk together.
- Watch how the child plays, - the children are so happy at such moments.
- Feed a stray cat or dog with the baby.
- Invite a friend of the child to visit you and arrange children full of entertainment and a delicious meal of the day.
- Do the cleaning in the child's room, sort the toys, put a surprise under the pillow.
- Put chocolate in pancakes, in oatmeal.
- Form of food in an unusual, bizarre form.
- Look at the child with a gentle and kind look.
- Smile at the child.
- Hug in return.
- Help the child cope with anger, discontent, sadness.
Only those who are able to love othersI felt love in my childhood. Remember this, remember this simple truth every day and you will help your child become a happy, open person. Love is what makes us human.