Rules for Boys' Moms
Every evening I say to my son: "I love you". And the boy, who is 7 years old, answers me: "Anyway I love you more"... some mothers are especially fortunate, they have a son. Mother-child communication Very strong, but in the case of the sons it is special.
A man who was engaged all day unthinkableAffairs - very quickly ran, naughty, fought and capricious, turns into a tender and sensitive creature that does not even believe! This is an important point: you need to let the child know that his love is mutual, and his mother loves him no matter what.
Then the boy will grow up a real man, Not only strong, responsible and appropriate to the ideas of men in this world, but also able to love! But this is the most important thing for a person - to be able to give your love to others and appreciate it.
These rules are clear to every mother, but even the mostDiligent parents should remind such things. Because everyday vanity sometimes erases the essence of what is happening - for what, in fact, we are all gathered here and why we are doing everything. Remember the most beautiful moments that fall to the lot of mom, raising a son!
How to raise sons
- Feelings turn into words
To help the child cope with emotions, it is worthwhile to teach him to express his feelings in words. healthy child - the one who does not hold back his emotions,Understands himself, knows how to control sensations and calls things by their proper names. Emotional constriction generates many diseases! Show your own example of how to express emotions correctly and how to call them.
- Support forever
The main fan of the son is his mother, of course. She knows everything about his achievements and misses, remembers the smallest details of his life. Sometimes the son may be ashamed of his devoted fan, but he will always know that in this world there is a person for whom he is the most important.
Do business with your son, teach him how to cook, wash, clean and watch yourself. It surely comes in handy!
- Reading together. Read the books together!
When the child is already reading independently, it's great to just sit next to him and read your book. An adult example is contagious!
Dance together, and never ridicule the child's awkward movements. Dance is a way to get to know your body better and express state through movement. This is a wonderful therapy from bad mood and stress.
- good people.
Around a lot of good people, and everyone is beautifulIn its own way! Teach the child to be receptive to positive examples, tell about outstanding scientists, travelers, writers ... people believe in belief from childhood. When it does not exist, life loses its meaning. With a negative son will still have time to face, but to see everything is good - this can be taught.
- Best example
Superhero is a mother. The most intelligent, beautiful and kind. Always remember that you are an ideal for your child and match him.
- good manners
Be able to give way, be polite and evenCourteous, respect for women - useful qualities. They will have people to their son and contribute to social adaptation. Always show courtesy with your own example.
A person must believe in something. If you protect the child from religion, teach him to believe in goodness and justice, in karma. Faith saves from loneliness and despair and will be with the child all his life.
There are things with which you need to be gentle and gentle. Animals, nature, young children and the feelings of other people are real treasures.
Things break, get messed up and get dirty, it'sinevitably. Mom should take this as a reality. An extra quarrel about the soiled clothes is useless, it is much better to teach the child to correct the consequences of his stormy activities.
To maintain mutual understanding with the son is very important, and for this you need to be interested in what he is interested in. For mother it is useful - learning something new, it keeps its youth!
Walk more often, enjoy the beauty around. Teach your child to understand nature and enjoy observing.
Not always the son has to win - let him lose. This is a useful experience that will teach him to relate to life philosophically. Not always everything will turn out, you need to win a victory.
Do not deny the child help and ask for help from him! This is a wonderful tool for educating a wise person. Helping my mother, the son feels useful and learns to help other people.
To achieve perfection, you need to work hard! Talents easily mean nothing. Teach your son to be diligent and not to quit without finishing them. It did not work out at the first attempt - with the tenth it will turn out exactly.
Try to answer all the questions the child asks you. Ask questions. The most important thing is to teach the child to find the answers to all the points of interest that he is interested in on his own.
Mom should let dad be dad! For the son this authority, it is not necessary to undermine it, even if the pope does not always cope with his role.
For a boy it's very important! Choose a sport that will not be too traumatic - for example, swimming. Physical strength and health will help a man to be self-confident.
Tactile contact is important for both boys and girls. Hugging, kissing and holding hands means to show one's love. Teach this to your child.
Take your son with you on a visit, on a journey, everywhere. This is an invaluable experience that will shape his personality!
- necessary things
Never forget to fold the napkins, antibacterial and patch in your purse! Without this, it is better not to leave the house.
Your son is the treasure of your heart, and he must always know about it. boy Will turn into a man, but he will love you as much. Even in difficult moments remember that you were lucky!
Tell other mothers about these simple secrets of upbringing, which are always worth remembering.